Purpose: Build intrapersonal intelligence by noticing what you feel, what you need, and what you will do next.
Step 1: Arrive (1 minute)
- Write the date and time.
- Rate your current energy from 0 to 10.
- One sentence: “Right now, I am…”
Step 2: Name what is true (2 minutes)
Fill in these prompts:
- Emotion(s):
- Body signal(s): (tight chest, lightness, tension, etc.)
- Thought loop: (what your mind keeps returning to)
- Need: (rest, clarity, connection, progress, autonomy, etc.)
Step 3: Identify the hidden driver (2 minutes)
Choose one and complete it:
- If I am avoiding this, it might be because I am afraid of _.
- The story I am telling myself is _.
- What I actually want is _.
Step 4: Values alignment (2 minutes)
- Top value I want to honor today:
- Where I am aligned (1 example):
- Where I am misaligned (1 example):
Step 5: Choose one tiny next move (2 minutes)
Pick one action that is both kind and real:
- Next move (10–20 minutes):
- When I will do it:
- What might block me:
- If that happens, I will:
Step 6: Close (1 minute)
- One sentence of self-respect: “Even if nothing else changes, I am proud that I…”
Optional: Weekly reflection (15 minutes)
- What situation triggered the strongest emotion this week?
- What pattern did I notice in my reactions?
- What boundary would have helped?
- What do I want to practice next week?
- One commitment I can keep.
If you want, duplicate this page and use it as a daily template.